worrying over something

as we grow old...there are many things that we need to worry about... as i can see in my sister's life..it's hard to achieved what others being expected from us..and also our desire to accomplish everything...let me list some of the problems/targets

1.marriage..(it's a BIG no..MAJOR problems in woman's life...correct??)
2.work/profession..
3.in terms of financing..(how does your work will stabilize your life??)
4.family..(there are lots of problems......zzzzzzzzz)
5.future planning..
6.your parents life..

mybe some of the problems ..as i mentioned above...can be the source of your migraine???either you are the first child or not...whether you are man or woman...everything happen in your family need to be shared with other..i mean..your SIBLINGS ONLY...you can't throw away your family after being independent and lots of money...you are the children..and you have your own responsibility and roles...when your parents are getting older...you're the one will take responsibility to take care of them...especially if you are a guy...in Islam...after your dad passed away..you will be the head of the family..even you the second or third child....

being a woman is hard...people will have a high expectation from you...

1.after you've done with upsr..."will you go to boarding school??"how can i go there with my result..???its..###%#%#^$^$#...

2."how's ur pmr???....worst....mybe i take a fun course after this....but ur parents wants u take medic....

3."ur spm is good rite??u can go to U..!!"..hmm..not really....i failed add math...

4.u've done ur degree...so..what kind of career you will choose????....aaaaaaaaaaaa

5.when will you show ur bf to ur parents??.................hmm...i dun have any

6."when will u get married...??"...i dun have any bf..so how am i suppose to get married??

and the question will go on..and on...i can see why my sister getting stressed up about this..

let me tell u...

1.IT'S YOUR LIFE..PLAN IT WISELY..LIFE IS ONLY ONCE..DON'T REGRET ANYTHING THAT YOU CHOOSE..

2.AFTER PLANNED IT...DOA IS IMPORTANT..LEAVE IT TO ALLAH S.W.T...AS TO HIM WE DEPEND ON...ANYTHING UNDER HIS WILL...QUN FAYA QUN...

3.THREE THINGS HAVE BEEN DECIDED BEFORE WE WERE BORN...rezeki ,ajal, jodoh..so don't fear why ur soulmate or u can called future husband is not arrive yet...



if anything that i've say are mistake..please forgive me..and please tell me about it...we live in this world will not survive from making any mistake and sin...