jodoh??? marriage???

assalamualaikum...

i'm asking my mother about jodoh...rse seperti sngt jahil menanyekan bab2 seperti ni...cume persoalan ini sudah lama bersarang di hati.

kalo tgk zaman sekarang nih...terutama bab2 kahwin...and bile diinterview...

"DIALAH JODOH SAYA..."

how do you know that he @ she is the right person???jahil btol diriku nih..heh...

from what i've seen and been through it...org kawen and then separate just like nothing happen..pas2 kawen blik...so dimana terletaknye jodoh 2 sebenarnye..???adakah zaman sekarang org just stated...

'i love him@ her...'

let's get married...

is it the right decison???

Allah swt befirman : "Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi (pula) kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu; Allah mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahui. " (Al-Baqarah : 216) 

when i asked about jodoh 2 my m0m...and because of what happen in my family....also my surroundings...so..i almost lost faith in finding the right pers0n..or you want to call it'phobia'...yes..the exact word..phobia...i can't trust men and HOW THEY WANT TO LEAD WOMEN IN MARRIAGE LIFE???

and my m0m answered...jodoh dkat tgn ALLAH SWT...da tertulis kt ats...3 perkara yg x akan ubah...rezeki..mati dan jodoh..terima shj jodoh yg ALLAH SWT beri...

and the stupid me ask again..jodoh 2 kekal ke mama???

ek.....

hahahahha..since my m0m and dad separates...so..rse ragu2 di situ...

dengan relaxnye mama berkata...e2 semue kerja ALLAH SWT...sudah ditetapkan begitu...kekal atau tidak..wallahualam....

and then i feel relieved..mybe it's not the best answered that i've got...but somehow...mybe akan melalui perkara2 begini.. so lebih baek menimba ilmu dahulu ...

kerana memulakan sebuah perkahwinan adalah berat..(in my opinion..)it's just not about love...it's about compromise...the bond between 2 families...try to complete each other..and have faith in ALLAH SWT that he will leads me ke jalan ALLAH SWT...

thanx to http://ustaz.blogspot.com kerana memperjelaskan dan mempertingkatkan kefahaman saya mengenai  soal jodoh...

Daripada Ibnu Umar r.a., katanya, saya mendengar Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda: "Setiap orang daripada kamu adalah pemimpin dan setiap seorang dari kamu akan ditanya perihal kepimpinannya. Pemimpin adalah yang bertanggungjawab memimpin dan akan ditanya perihal yang dipimpin olehnya. Seorang lelaki adalah pemimpin dalam keluarganya dan akan ditanya perihal kepimpinannya. Seorang wanita adalah pemimpin dalam rumah suaminya dan akan ditanya perihal kepimpinannya. Buruh adalah pemimpin dalam harta majikannya dan akan ditanya perihal kepimpinannya. Jadi setiap seorang dari engkau semua itu adalah pemimpin dan tentu akan ditanya perihal kepimpinannya. "(Hadis sahih Muttafaq 'alaih) 

sowi kalo ade tersalah ke hape...4 betulkan kesalahan saya or any opinion..plese comment...tq....

my fav...:)

assalamualaikum..and hello...

welc0me 2 my blog..(sgtla lame...)

ok straight forward...heheheh...today i want to talk about favourites....x semestinye on which shop do you like to visit or other stuff...huhuhuhu...

on my free time...what would be my FAV THINGS to do????

reading books...

it may sounds corny but i'm actually addicted to books...books...OKLA...MANGA... x leh nk kelentong...but i read books too..it's quite WEIRD if i'm not read 1 manga...walaup0n only 1 chapter on the internet..(selaen bukak fb)..:P

Q:what kind of types of manga @ books do you like??

hmm..tough question...i'm kinda like manga that not really cheeky or kinda-manja-stuff...i'm into more kinda serius manga..for example..naruto,bleach,skip beat, dengeki daisy,red river...walaup0n naruto semue 2 nmpk mcm cikai..(my be org ingt..ala...kartun budak2..da beso gedabak p0n nk bce lagi...EXCUSE ME...IT'S BETTER THIS KINDA MANGA BECAUSE IT HAVE MORE MORALS THAN OTHER CARTOONS...)kalo nk cerite mmg smpai bes0k pagi x abih..kalo nk kecik kan scope manga or types of manga..hmm...action..romance..shoujo..adult..fantasy..drama...slice of life...hahhahah..imagine how many manga i've read???huhuhuhuhu.....

Q:how about books..??

ok..psl buku..i'm into romance books..HAHAHHAHAH..pelik kan???english romance if u wanna call it...it started from my m0m...sbb bosan sngt..so bcela.. even though ader....hmmmm..x yah ckp..hahahhaha...semue da beso...but i really like the way the story goes..call me cheesy..cOrny or whatsoever...hahahhah...im totally into it......i really like judith mcnaught..almost all her books i have..:)..christine feehan...my m0m x suke nih sbb  the author into paranormal romance..vampire..leopards..action..7 sisters...hahhahah...none of my sisters like her books...so...im the only one conquer..:)...kalo malay books...same gak...novel melayu...ckp jer...ahadiat akasyah..aisya sofea...norhayati berahim..syud..rnysa..naz...and also HLOVATE...spe yg penah bce...leh bgtau ape yg korg rse about hlovate's books...totally awesome...spe x penah..please buy 5 tahun 5 bulan dahulu...kepada yg x suke corny sngt...leh la bce buku nih....huhuhuhuhuhu.... 

meredah KLCC...

y KLCC???sbb paling dkat ngn umah and senang nk g...makanan die p0n best...kalo ade mse lapang DAN DUET MENCUKUPI..i tell my sister...

"adik nk g klcc.."

"wat pe?"

"sorg2..bosan kt umah...nk beli novel..."

"ok..pape call...blim cpat.."

heheheheh..dengan keizinan-Nya...semue berjalan dngn smooth...slalu kalo cmnih..i grab christine feehan latest book(yg pling cheap ar....)and mkn kt Sushi king...suke mkn tempura udon..im not into mee exactly..but x taula npe udon leh suke lak...hahahah..mybe sbb die tebal and mengenyangkan...perut naga tol..:P...kalo malas nk makan..grab mocha Auntie Anne's and FAmous Amos chips...and go to taman..:)..cr port baek..and read the book...without any disturbance..kalo ujan..dok kt signatures la..tmpt laen or cafe..x mampu..huhuhu..kalo ternmpk ader p0mpuan tgh bce buku kt foodcourt 2 ngn air..that's me..XD...

windu giler nk wat cmnih lagi...bila la agaknye..-___-

watching anime..

anime..:)..hehehhehe...ckp psl anime bertahun2 p0n x bosan..i really like anime yg dulu2 punyer..bkn zaman skrg nih x best..cume x der mse nk follow....sepanjang cuti nih...sbb x dpt keje..and my m0m said..dok umah..kmas umah..k fine....i'm digging back my fav-old-time anime...x tercakap...bnyk sngt..but tp i'm starting with dragon ball....it's kinda cool watching goku from small until he marries chi chi and got son gohan adn son goten....tgk bpe lme punyer cite x abih2....dragonball seperates into 3 series...yg nih originated from japan..not american punyer version ek..spe yg tgk american punyer version die rugi..:)...ok..mari kite bljr psl dragonball..!!!!

the first series is

dragon ball

yg nih time goku kecik lagi...lawan ngn red ribbon army x clap...nih time die ngn bulma..kuririn...yamucha...chaozu..master roshi...really brings back memories..spe mse kecik2 dlu tgk kt tv 2..weekend kul 9.30??angkat tngn..!!!! me..!!!!!!

the second series..dragonball z

time nih goku dpt gohan...so started of all complex plots...vegeta...segala bnde...dragonball z la pling best..:)..x nk comment bnyk2..nnt x suprise...:)

last series...dragon ball gt..

this time goku jd kecik and pegi mengembara seluruh semesta..hahhaha..ngn trunks ngn pan..cucu die..tp yg sedihnyer..tis is the end of the journey..huhuhu..!!!leh nangis kowt..!!!goku bnyk kali mati..and da smpi ke cucu cicit..!!!

in version american..episod die lari sket..and die quite kedepan a few episodes...and another thing is ade satu lagi dragon ball gt yg diaorg remake...

lastly..sleep...!!

kalo da tension sngt segala bnde..yg plaing best ialah TIDO...x der nk bazir duet...bazir tenaga..dpt recharge aderla...hahahah...just need a bantal..selimut..and port yg sedap seperti katil dan kipas...pe lagi?????ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ..:) 

PELUANG UNTUK BERHIBERNASI...tiada siapa akan mengacau anda...

ini sahaja la yg sy suke wat...for the time being..hahahha...so...sorry for being bored...im just a simple girl...have my own minds and my own way to show to other people...mybe you have more ideas how to spend your days...but i like spend time with what i like to do..:)..just be yourself...:)

tired of you

y0u

you heard me

talking to myself..

you friend with me

to making fool of myself

you pity me

when rain fallin' to me

you playin' me

a little bit concern on me, huh??

now 

you lost me

as you come back to me

you lost me

when you never looked back and left me alone

you lost me

you cross me and never glance at me

you beggin' me

to put me back into the first place in your life

sad huh??

tragic life..

tragic life..

how we're gonna get over it??

surely..better leave me as we are now

never known each other

get back to the other world..

your own world..and

my own world..

p/s:it's been so long x tulis pape..so welc0me Ramadhan..!!!!!!!!

RIP

rest in peace..

AMY WINEHOUSE

i'm not a huge fan of her but since my sis like her because of her songs...

so..hopefully she can find peace in hereafter...

it's all about FOOD...XD

assalamualaikum....

food

FOOD

FOOD..!!!!

kinda annoying isn't it??

generally when we're talking about food...it is to fulfill our needs...and the most important thing is the taste of the food make us totally craving it..

again..and again...

eat..eat..and eat..

alhamdulillah im not really choosy about food..(ye ker?)asalkan nmpk SEDAP, MURAH DAN KENYANG...

im not into kinda food that TOTALLY EXPENSIVE,AND CIPUT JE MAKANAN DIE...

because???

i have a LARGE APPETITE..

excuse me??

i mean...

large...

LARGE...

DAMN LARGE..

even my house mates totally tired of me because of the way i keep talking about food...or hungry and bugging them to eat with me..

for example:

1.bukan ko da makan ke td?(tis is the common question yg akan ditnyer...x kire pagi petang siang mlm..)

2.cukup ke ko makan nih??kang lapar lagi..(selalunyer sy amik mkanan yg mengenyangkan dalam tempoh 4-6 jam..but kalo x cukup..have to makan lagi...

3.ko nk makan malam?bkn petang tadi da makan??(i cannot skip my lunch and dinner..if not..i'll be crazy..)

i'm n0t the only person yg mempunyai selera beso thp gaban..my sister also like me..heheheh..so ader geng bile tgh2 mlm nk mkn...slalu lpas dinner mesti tnyer.."lapar lagi x??McD??ke nk kunyah2?"..nih mesti ayat wajib...badan x naek2..tp selera..masyallah..people always misunderstood about our family...slalu saudara mara ckp..."Ya Allah, korg nih x mkn ker????"gaye ckp mcm my mum x bagi mkn jer..pdhal..hahahahhah....

when i start live with my housemate,slalu bnyk masalah la tang makanan nih.. especially diaorg semue bkn jenis mkn mlm...kalo mkn p0n setakat mkn bnde yg simple2...totally disaster situation for me...hahahahha..but somehow i've overcome it...but bile blik umah..mmg melantak habisan...

sometimes when i come back home..i've gotta list(food list actually) for myself...so my sis already know and prepare for themselves..."mlm nih nk mkn pe???nasi kukus ayam dara 2??laksa??spagetti??kuehtiau???sushi??udon???etc...."hahhahahhahaha...totally heaven...selamat my sis ikutkan ajer...sbb kt segamat x bnyk choices of food that i want...mmg perut naga...kt sne..slalu je mkn mcd(thank you mcd..!!!!)..sbb complete package and mengenyangkan..my mom slalu marah..tp balas blik..da harge mknan kt cni nk dkat sme ngn mcd...baek beli mcd jer...lagi kenyang...my mom trus diam..hahahhaha....

kebanyakan i've spent my money on food...thanx to my friends yg sanggup tman mkan mlm..walaup0n da kenyang..i salute u babe..!!so..full your stomach with food...!!!

peace y'all..

assalamualaikum...

current mood:STILL HUNGRY...AFTER EATING LUNCH...SIGH.......~~

today's story

wake up early in the morning...

i mean

about

4.30 AM????

it's been like tis since my sleep timing completely hectic...

kejap tdo..kjap x..

so..bangun pagi..gosok bju my mom...

goreng nugget for my sister...kmas umah...

..............tetibe rajin kan???

after that...tergerakla hati nk cari resipi for sotong...

FYI...i really don't know how 2 cook....(setakat yg biase2 2 leh la..asalkan perut kenyang sndr...)

sejak dok umah nih.kene masak 4 family...

so..bagai nk rak cari resipi..pick the one yg simple,jimat mase but the tasthe..fulamak..!!!hahahhahaha..

hopefully my mom will give me an A tis time....

da bosan cari resipi...lepak jap...tgk dragon ball....hehehheh..(x abih2 tgk bnde nih...suke suki....)

around 10 o clock..bersiap g maxis centre..hopefully dpt duet blik..hampeh..!!!!!!!!

die bg cheque...!!!maxis..please bg cash.. nk berronggeng p0n x dpt...

so..cr initiative sndr...

da gian sngt on MOCHA AUNTIE ANNE'S

(the best mocha i've ever taste..so starbucks and coffee beans...bkn korg x sdap..but i'd prefer on auntie anne's punyer..:)  )

jejak je kt sne...MOCHA X DER..!!!!!!OMG..!!SO FRUST MAN..!!!!!!

serius.....thp gaban..it's been 3 month's maybe??kempunan mocha die..pretzel die x p0n..just mocha die jer..

even my close friends p0n suke mocha kt c2..sedey sngt...

so nk lpaskan gian sngt..g secret recipe..even x sme..but lagi mahal...BUT WORTH IT LA...

please la ade....

sedey nih..!!!

spe snggup blnjer?????